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Empathy in Action: Transform Your Perspective
Explore the transformative power of empathy in action. This concept highlights how simple acts of understanding and care can create profound changes in life. By practicing empathy in action, you can improve relationships, foster compassion, and build a more connected community. Dive into the essence of empathy in action and its impact on personal and social well-being.
Aim High, Even When It Feels Impossible
Motivational speakers love to talk about setting SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. And sure, those matter. But I’ve always believed something a little different: We can’t get everything we want, but if we don’t want it in the first place, we’ll never get any of it.* Think of basketball: a player may only make 30% of the shots they take… but they make 0% of the shots they don’t take . That’s how I approach my own goals: I set them high—s
Shari Bookstaff
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What is empathetic listening?
W hen I first started teaching healthcare students about empathy, I quickly realized that listening is so much more than just hearing words. It’s about truly understanding the person in front of you—their fears, their hopes, their story. That’s why mastering active listening strategies is so critical. These skills don’t just improve conversations; they build trust, deepen connections, and create care that truly matters. If you want to foster genuine empathy and enhance your c
Shari Bookstaff
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The Best of Empathy in Healthcare
In early September, 2006, about six weeks following a “routine” brain tumor removal, I was transferred from the surgical hospital to a rehabilitation facility. I had regular occupational, physical and speech therapy six days per week. My speech therapist, who exemplified the expression of empathy in healthcare, used methods to stimulate my swallowing reflex. She swabbed the back of my throat and my uvula (the thing that hangs down in the back of the throat) with cold, lemon-f
Shari Bookstaff
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Expressing Empathy: From Feeling to Action
Every time I present on empathy, I walk away with new insights. One truth remains constant: empathy is more than “putting yourself in someone else’s shoes.” It’s not just a feeling—it’s an action. And that action can be simple, powerful, and transformative. Rethinking Empathy We often hear that empathy means imagining how someone else feels. But let’s be honest—that’s not always realistic. Can we truly know what it’s like to live with chronic pain, fear, or sadness if we ha
Shari Bookstaff
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My Experience at the Phoenix Walkathon for Brain Tumor Research
A Unique Opportunity to Share My Story I just returned from Phoenix, where I attended a walkathon in support of brain tumor research. I didn’t go as a walker; I went as a bookseller. The event’s sponsors had read my book and graciously invited me to sell books during the event. My table was located near the silent auction (where I bid on—and lost—a chocolate basket). I expected this event to bring together 4,000 members of my target audience all in one place. To prepare, I in
Shari Bookstaff
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Stroke Network Volunteer (originally from April 2010)
I added a volunteer position to my life this week. I am the new News Administrator for the Stroke Network. The Stroke Network comprises a network of websites geared toward supporting stroke survivors, and loved ones of stroke survivors. The creator of the Stroke Network contacted me through Facebook and asked if I would be willing to take on this position. They needed someone with an academic background. Mostly what I do as News Administrator is choose articles to be shared
Shari Bookstaff
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Mirror, Mirror
<p>Mirror, mirror on the wall: who’s the fairest one of all? Not me! And probably not you! Ok, maybe YOU! I started a new research project this week to further explore exercises that are beneficial to brain-injured people. In this study, participants put their weaker hand into a box that has a mirror on the […]</p>
Shari Bookstaff
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Nastiness
<p>Why do bad things happen to good people? Why do good people do bad things? Why does Radio Shack ask for your phone number when you buy batteries? These are some of life’s unanswerable questions. My daughter says that there are four types of people in the world: people who are nice, people who are smart, […]</p>
Shari Bookstaff
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Cranberries
<p>Someone recently asked me if I teach all these classes because I have to or because I want to. Isn’t that a question that plagues everyone as they get ready to go to work each morning? This semester I’m adding an online section of Marine Biology to my schedule, and soon, I’m planning to add […]</p>
Shari Bookstaff
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